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21 Dec

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5 Oct 2011


My friends,
                             
We have a great group signed up for the first annual  “A Celebration of Friends” cruise and theres still time to sign up.  The cruise is 7 days starting February 26th  roundtrip from Fort Lauderdale on the Celebrity Solstice with stops in San Juan Puerto Rico, St Maarten and St Thomas in the US Virgin Islands.  You can go to our website www.avenewtravel.com for more details.  On the homepage, look on the left side for a list of cruises and click on the title of the cruise “A Celebration of Friends” or click on the photo and it will take you to the detail page.
 
If you are a first time cruiser, remember the price of the cruise includes all your meals, entertainment and transportation during the cruise.  Food onboard the Solstice includes huge breakfast and lunch buffets and gourmet quality meals at dinner.  There are several restaurants on the ship open all hours of the day, you always have lots of choices.  The entertainment onboard includes several broadway style shows in the main theater and several shows in other venues which are all included in the price.  A cruise is the cheapest way to travel when you consider that it includes all meals, entertainment and activities.
 
We just got another block of rooms at a great reduced price.
You can book an inside room category 10 for $620 per person base fare plus port fees of $169 and $99 tax. 
An outside room category 1-C with sliding glass doors leading to your own private veranda is only $780 per person plus $169 port fees and $99 tax.
These prices are per person based on double occupancy (2 people sharing a room).
These are great prices and are for a limited time so book as soon as possible to get the best price.  If prices go up, you are locked in at the lower price, if prices come down from the prices quoted above- we match the price so you get the difference refunded to you.  All that is required to book now is a $250 deposit per person which is refundable until Dec 1st.  On Dec 1st the balance is due.  So far, most people have booked the veranda rooms.  This price also includes $75 worth of group amenities like a free cocktail party and meet and greet parties set up just for our group.
We will also have our own groups you can go to shore with at all three ports at no extra charge.
There will be events planned every day just for our group so it will be easy for you to meet other people in our group.
 
If you are single and want to share a room, we can connect you with another man in our group to share a room with.  All rooms can be set up as two twin beds or 1 queen bed.  We have someone looking for a roomate now.  These are large rooms so it is very comfortable to share a room.
 
For more info, call John Avery at AveNew Travel    954-493-6393
 
Lots & Lots Of Love,
Tomcat
WE ARE LEGION!!! . . . AND FAMILY!!!

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21 Dec

7 Sep Newsletter

Posted in Uncategorized on 21.12.11

 

 

A Habitat of Friends, Inc. (AHOF) Informational Meeting

5 Oct 2011

My friends,

   
With everything the ACOF has to offer, it has always been my dream to build a low-cost, low stress community for our members to live in. 
This following meeting is the first official step to make this community a reality. - Tomcat
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On Saturday, June 25, 2011, a meeting was held during the A Celebration of Friends (ACOF) convention in Fort Lauderdale for those interested in our new non-profit entity ‘A Habitat of Friends, Inc.’ (AHOF)
The following large amount of research and information came from Ed Marchi,  a recognized expert and professional specialist in elder care. Those who attended the meeting were informed of what is currently being done to help retired men, especially those with limited resources, to live out their lives with dignity. There are several organizations offering  an array  of retirement options for gay men, but these  are all quite costly and are not available for those of medium or low-income. This meeting was been set up to address the needs of that pulation.
The group’s first priority is to set up a proper working ’model’  and develop a ‘business plan’.
Ed stated; “The government supports smaller, non-licensed home-care units and hospice houses, which allows people to live their lives in    dignity in their own homes instead of being institutionalized.  With this in mind, the group discussed a ‘Golden Girls’ type situation where we could buy a home housing several individuals and share living expenses.  Medicare funding would support the in-home healthcare options and the place would not have to be licensed as a ‘medical-provider’ or “care facility” of any sort, but rather merely a residence.” 
Ed further talked about the AHOF providing support services; such as case management, healthcare advising and providing assistance with personal and home care tasks such as yard work, housework, transportation, etc.
He then created a survey and summarized the results.  

       Q.  Should AHOF be located in South Florida?
      A.   38% strongly agreed, 29% agreed, 33% were neutral

       Q.  Should AHOF be close to a Metropolitan Area?
       A.  43% strongly agreed, 37% agreed, 20% were neutral

      Q.  Should AHOF  be for people 55 and older?
       A.  46% strongly agreed, 24% agreed, 15% were neutral, 10% disagreed, 5% strongly disagreed

     Q.  I would like to be living at AHOF in the next three to five years.
     A.  11% strongly agreed, 20% agreed, 33% were neutral, 15% disagreed, 21% strongly disagreed.

     Q.  I would like to purchase my living space.
      A.  6% strongly agreed, 52% agreed, and 42% were neutral.
The top 3 services people would like to see offered are: 
Personal Emergency Response, Transportation,  and Companionship.

Discussion/Options
According to Ed, The current model is that the individual sell his home, pay an entrance fee and then live in either an independent, assisted living, or skilled nursing setting depending on their medical, and /or mental condition.  These settings can be either “stand alone” or offered as a Continuum in a campus often referred to as a Continuing Care Retirement Community (CCRC).   The independent and assisted living options offer basically the services that were listed in the survey and can be purchased as a package or menu driven—for most middle and low income men the cost is prohibitive.
The average cost for Assisted Living with basic services falls between $2,500 – $3,500 per month for a studio or small one bedroom.  As Ed stated,. ”the flaw in the system is that as your needs change, you have to physically move to the “next level.”  In other parts of the world, they separate healthcare from housing, bringing healthcare to the person.  There are signs that some of the current policy makers are seeing the benefit of this approach.
What does all this have to do with AHOF?
It was generally agreed and recommended that anyone starting a community from scratch is to throw away the current model, not replicate it!  There are better options. Trying to finance a start up AHOF community based on the current model and its heavy costs would be next to impossible.  The group concluded that a condo/property but-in was too risky and expensive.
   
Alternatives/Future Models – Food for thought !

Home based and Community Based Services (HCBS). According to Ed, several years ago, his organization started taking care of people in their homes.  They are currently doing this through a  (Medicaid-Medicare) waiver from the Center for Medicare & Medicaid Services (CMS). This is made possible through the use of new technologies.  People are being taken care of, who just three years ago would have been confined in expensive skilled nursing facilities.  One possibility for a AHOF community would be for members to independently purchase condos, trailers, mobile homes, an old motel, etc. in a common complex, mobile home park, or geographic location.  One could own their own property and AHOF would offer the services for a low cost monthly fee. If you google “Naturally Occurring Retirement Communities(NORCS)” or visit http://www.norcblueprint.org/community  you will see various kinds of NORCs and how this concept could be a potential HOF model. 
As people age they could also access differing features of their Medicare/Medicaid benefits for licensed homecare and medical needs.  There are several states that currently offer a Money (public funding) Follows the Person (MFP) alternative.  Florida is one of those states.  In the MFP program, if one qualifies for Medicaid and needs a nursing home level of care, one can stay at home (age in place) and the extra support services you need to live at home would be provided there and would be paid through Medicaid.  Having the support of your HOF and your loved ones nearby, for gay seniors, could make this a nice fit.
Under the MFP you can select your own caregiver (consumer directed care) and it can be a relative, friend, or younger lover!  In Federal Care legislation there is the CLASS act, which is designed to provide $50 per day to spend on services to keep people out of the nursing home. This is where the future financing of aging services may be going, and the NORC model is a natural fit for our group. 
The strengths of the NORC model for a AHOF community is that it would take very little capital (cash) to start, residents could own or lease their own property with a much lower monthly fee for the same services offered in a traditional CCRC model. Services could be provided in several different geographic locations, or wherever a big enough group of “Friends” may choose to migrate.      
Currently a group of people in Texas have created an RV assisted living community. We should not be boxed in by a single old-fashioned, expensive model!  This is not a “build it and they will come deal.” 
Additional notes/information offered at the meeting:
Hundreds of services are available in EVERY county in the US (required by law). MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW WHAT IS AVAILABLEAND/OR HOW TO ACCESS.

These are some statistics of what Broward County Florida has offered in one year:
888,842 home delivered meals
569,625 units of personal care services
368,915 congregate meals served
291,218 units of homemaker service
All states are required to offer similar programs through their Office for the Aging.  ACOF members should look in their areas for similar services.
Ideas brought up in the meeting:

    ·       don’t isolate by age (interaction with younger people keeps seniors active and younger)
    ·       animal therapy
    ·       locate where services are available, not always where real estate prices are best.
    ·       some home healthcare providers now include cameras in the home (if desired), which allow people outside of home to know when someone might need assistance, monitor their sleeping, etc. Also cameras can be used to visit with doctors and report vital signs.
    ·       isolation is one of the biggest problems with seniors.
    ·       our group is not just from Florida; offering services is a model that could be set up in any state once established. We do need to set up an initial model (whether brick and mortar or just service agency in some place first, Florida is logical, since Ft. Lauderdale is #1 senior gay retirement center (Palm Springs is #2). While Port Charlotte county has the oldest average age population.
    ·       set up gay community that is close knit and takes care of each other.
The group decided that the best move now to establish a board of directors and to come up with a business plan/proposal, detail that information and look into best location/scenario; etc.
Ed Marchi has promised to assist and facilitate the development of AHOF community in any way he can.  We will communicate through the COF web – site and email.   
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So my friends, we now need YOU!  We’re looking for people to help us make the A Habitat of Friends Community a reality!
We’re asking for all your comments, questions and expertise to help out here!

Let me know what you think!

Sincerely,

Tom (Tomcat) Pence
President,
A Celebration of Friends, Inc.
A Habitat of Friends, Inc.

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My friends,

Summer is finally over and now I would like to thank you for making the A Celebration of Friends (ACOF) tenth anniversary a success.  Six hundred and seventy mature men from Washington D.C., thirty-four U.S. states, Australia, Belgium, Brazil, Canada, Dubai, Ecuador, Germany, India, Italy, Ireland, Puerto Rico, Spain, Sweden, Switzerland, the United Kingdom, and Venezuela attended the Celebration.  Approximately two hundred and fifty of those participants came from Florida 
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COF celebrates t

 

he friendships and social connections of its many participants, whose loyalty to the event in many instances, spans more than twenty years.  ACOF has provided charitable contributions in excess of one hundred forty-four thousand dollars to Broward County area non-profits including The Pride Center and Tuesday’s Angels.  A total of ten thousand dollars was donated from this year’s event which concluded in 

 

June. 
Our new non-profit “A Habitat of Friends, Inc. is now up and running.

 

A Habitat of Friends main goals are in serving the gay community with housing and living environments  which are safe, and comfortable. It will be a place where the residents can live and  socialize in a  secure and comfortable atmosphere.  We’re looking to establish a low-cost, low-pressure retirement community for our members to call home.  The ACOF Board has decided that at least half of our annual donations will be dedicatedto the A Habitat of Friends.  This year that amount was $five thousand dollars sent to Habitat’s financial savings account.  Look for an email shortly pertaining to A Habitat of Friends, Inc. 


This coming February 26th, 2012, ACOF will be LAUNCH  its first Cruise aboard the Celebrity SOLSTICE sponsored by AveNew Travel— Reserve your stateroom NOW!  Check it out at  http://www.celebrationoffriends.org

Please continue to check in at the ACOF website for many new items and a few future surprises!  Most of the information for the 2012 Celebration is now on the website.

The new 2011 Gallery of pictures will be up shortly!  If you have any comments, took any pics during the Celebration and wish to post them, email them

 

 

Tom (Tomcat) Pence
President,
A Celebration of FRIENDS, INC.
A Habitat of Friends, Inc.

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06 Dec

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